How to write a profile that’ll have you dating by
the end of the week…Guaranteed!
by: Jack Conway
12/04/04
www.weeklyscore.com
In my last article I showed you exactly how you can
have as many as 160 women checking out YOUR online profile -- and as many
as 30 women actually contacting you for dates within a single week’s time.
You see, some of the most recent studies on online dating have shown that
during the months of October, November and December, there are an estimated
802,000 single women trolling the online personals, desperately seeking dates.
That’s 535,000 more than any other time of the year.
And the statistical data from these studies can prove the numbers too.
If you didn’t read this article, do yourself a favor, and
check it out here.
Now if you’re looking to meet women online...statistically, there is
absolutely no better time to do it than right now.
This is a fact.
But just because the numbers are in you favor, doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll
be able to reap the benefits of these impressive odds.
The truth is, while there are more than 3 quarters of a million single women
actively pursuing dates for this holiday season...there are also thousands of
men looking for the same.
Of course most of these guys will be lucky if they can get 2 replies within a
month.
And the reason is simple.
Most of these mopes have no idea what they’re doing when it comes to writing
their online profiles.
Their profiles are boring and predictable. They do nothing to peak a woman’s
interest.
And if you don’t believe me -- look for yourself.
See how many guys start out their profiles with something like, “Are you the
one?” or “Long walks on the Beach.”
Give me a break!
Do you honestly believe for one second that this kind of line is going to get
you a date?
Of course it’s not.
Listen. If you really want to get a woman’s attention, you have to be creative.
You have to be interesting. You have to be unique.
So read on...and I’ll show you exactly how to write the kind of unique
profile that will not only grab a woman’s attention...but will actually
intrigue her so much, she’ll be the one contacting YOU for a date.
Write a headline that screams READ ME!!!
The very first thing a woman is going to read when
she comes across your profile is your headline.
This is your one and only chance to convince her to click on YOUR profile.
So don’t blow it!
Remember...the key here is being unique.
Your headline will be sandwiched between loser headlines like, “Looking to meet
new people” and “In search of that special someone.”
So already, the odds are in your favor.
That’s the greatest thing about all of this.
All you have to do at this point is make your headline stand out...and your
chances of her clicking your profile are astronomical.
There a number of ways to do this.
Questions are always good.
And I don’t mean cheesy questions like, “Are you hot” or “Do you like to
rollerblade?”
I’m talking about an intriguing question. A question that will make her stop
sifting through all those other headlines just long enough to see what you
have to say.
Maybe something like, “Have you ever tried dim sum?” or “How’s this for an
offer?”
I’ve actually written a number of articles just on effective headlines alone.
You can check them out...as well as a full list of headlines that have proven to
be effective at
www.weeklyscore.com.
The Perfect Profile:
Using Details In Your Ad That’ll Keep Her Interested In You – AND ONLY
YOU!
I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase "The devil is in
the detail."
Well, not only is the devil in the detail, but the devil will help you land the
woman of your dreams.
You see, what most women want... what they dream about... is going on an
adventure or going on an exciting journey with Prince Charming.
The adventure doesn’t have to be a trip around the world. It could be as simple
as a trip to the local vineyard. Or a hot new club or restaurant. Or a daytrip
to the beach. Whatever. It all depends on how exciting you make it sound. And...
this is very important... I’m a true believer in sticking to one idea.
Let me give you an example. Which sounds more exciting:
1. I’m 33 years old and I like to travel to places that excite me. (I see this –
or something very similar all of the time on online dating websites)
Or
2. I’m usually on the run on the weekends. Last week I visited Annapolis (home
of the U.S. Naval Academy). There was an English garden on the grounds at the
Academy that rivaled anything I’ve seen in London. But I have to admit – the
garden notwithstanding, the outdoor cafes overlooking the Chesapeake Bay was the
highlight of my daytrip. Simply stunning. Next week I’m heading to D.C. to see
the Cherry Blossoms (if you haven’t seen them in full bloom, you should). After
that I’ll hit this French café that sits above the Potomac River. It comes
highly recommended.
Okay, which one sounds better?
It’s obvious, I think. The second one is better. Much better. There are so many
details I get across in #2 that I could never get across with "I like to
travel."
Think about it for a second. In #2, I tell women that I’m well-traveled (I’ve
been to London)... that I’m not boring (I’m constantly taking daytrips), I enjoy
good food (outdoor cafes), and that I appreciate beauty and nature (English
garden and Cherry Blossoms).
But more importantly, I’ve excited her senses by giving her details. And I’ve
left the door open for a possible date, i.e., “Next week I’m heading to D.C. to
see the Cherry Blossoms.”
Remember, you’re writing to women. So you have to say the subtle things that’ll
attract them.
You can get a better idea of how an effective personal ad should sound by
checking out the free archive section and “Guaranteed to Get a Date” guide at
the weeklyscore.com.
In fact, you can get all the possible information you’ll ever need for writing
the perfect personal profile right now at
www.weeklyscore.com.
The fact is there is absolutely no better time than right now to meet hundreds
of women online. There are more woman at this very moment, online...looking for
dates than any other time of the year. You write the perfect profile – and
they’ll be coming in droves.
Happy Scoring!
Jack Conway
Jack Conway is a professional advertising
writer and publisher of the
WeeklyScore.com – an online news service dedicated to helping men meet and
date women online. Through his Virtual Personal Ad Assistant, Jack has helped
thousands of men get dates on dating websites.
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